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Dear RentMen visitors, Danco chose to answer 16 interview questions that were last updated on 02 Apr 2020

Interview

  • If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
    On those special moments you don't tell your lifestory there is plenty of time for that on a rainy day at home at the sofa.
    on this blanket you should be able to enjoy each others company even without speaking just experience the moment and each other, look at the sunset cuddle and enjoy all the positive energy. at least if the blanket is nog just in front of the cruising area in the dunes.
  • What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
    i try to take care of myself in the best possible way, but two jobs and a study,social contacts, gay parties, my love for sweets and ice cream. there is no time for the gym or glutenfree diet.
    At least i cook everyday for myself ( mostly pasta because i just love it) and the luck of a fast digestive system i look the same for 20 years already. And for work i bike 20 till 30 km a day.
  • What makes you stand out from the crowd?
    The bar, the line in front of the toilets, the place to buy tokens. Further i feel quite conformable in the crowd outside by yourself is so lonely.
    No i am a person that at least tries everything, good or bad, right or wrong, easy or difficult, i can take perfect care of myself, from the complete householding to construction work, from cooking to fixing cars, from fixing technical problems till sewing my own clothes. Damn would it be weird to marry to myself :))
  • If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
    That the arrogance people often think to see on me is actually pure insecurity. yes the early days left a lot of scars, but not all scars are always visible on the outside.
    Don't judge a book by its cover, just pick it up and start to read it you will see there is more than just the nice pic in the front, it has much more to offer.
  • Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
    After being in the closet for 33 years (always knew i was gay), pretending to be the macho guy with a girlfriend on every finger sleeping with them just to please them and to keep my secret alive.
    The first time i had intimacy with a guy,those two minutes ( x-rated) longer i couldn't make it, where not the best experience but for me they count like that............
    The experience got way better but not one of them i will remember like that one. an explosion of 33 years fantasizing launched in les then two minutes to the moon and back
  • What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
    I am what i am, i will survive, a little respect, why tel me why, tainted love, strong enough, let it go, supermodel,
    it's raining man, dancing queen, this is me.
  • What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
    I am entering my second youth, i have learned from all my mistakes in the past, i let go of all the ballast, am aware of all the choices that i make, i won't regret anything anymore and try to enjoy every day from now on as much as possible, only do the things i like, i stop by letting society screw my brain and from now on i live life by my rules, my ideas, my thoughts and hope i can help as much people as possible to do the same thing.
  • What is your ‘niche’?
    Mental health care, to really understand what is going on in people their mind. How we can program ourselves, fix our bugs, reset our surviving mechanism. What is it that we search for our entire life and why is it so hard to find.
    How can i bring people as much joy as possible, what are their desires where do they come from, and how can they be for filled?
  • What are your greatest personal traits?
    Being honest and taking responsibility for my actions, Adaptability and compatibility, Drive and determination, Loyalty, adventurous, creative, easy going, friendly, enthusiastic, neurotic, easy going
  • How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
    By the joy that taking care of others brings me in life, specialty the ones that have to fight their entire life to society already because of a disability or mental issue. To be able to think in possibilities instead of problems.
    I am proud i started my Master forensic psychology and be able to help even more people stay out of troubles because they are understood wrong and judged by society. i often wonder who is normal a person with a mental disability for being open and honest and asking questions others see as stupid but stay true to themselves, or the normal people who try their entire life to become someone others look up too just because of the status instead of following their own heart.
  • What do you do for fun?
    Take me to a themeparc and let's ride all the crazy wild thrillrides, better let's make a big coastertrip. As soon as i enter the gate of the parc my inner child takes over :)
    Also drinking a cold beer on the blanked in summer time at a nice festival.
    Try to live my life the way i want it enjou every part of it, so also the way we meet, proud of myself to feel this free.
  • What should others absolutely know about you?
    Look at my profile LOL there is not much left behind i think its all quite exposed here, but i am an open book i have no secrets for nobody, i have nothing to hide i am proud of who i am and what i do i make the choises in my life now for myself and ask me what you would like to know and i will tell you. secrets only bring stress
  • What do you enjoy most about yourself?
    First you write in the part above the queastions no x-rated text in your interview and than you ask me the question what do you enjoy most about yourself
    well if you cut out the x-rated part the i will go for my sence of humor, and my ability to adapt quickly in new situations.
    I am a pleaser so i enjoy when i can take care of other people, and i think being a nurse/mental coach for twenty years already i enjoyed a lot of moments and still a lot om moments to come.
  • Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
    coffee, still after all those years that first coffee in the morning stays the best, specialy waking up make two big cups of coffee bring them both to the bedroom where you just wake up and start the day like that.
    Netflix, for those cold andd rainy days that you dont want to go out and just stay under your blanked binge watching stupid comedy, those series that you can skip one episode inbetween cause you can stay decent watching if that hot guy from last night decided to stay over and is naked under the blanked next to you.
    Pumpkin my cat who i have a love hate relation with, she is the biggest diva from Amsterdam, she could be teachen dragqueens a lesson. But i couldn't miss her.
    My google nest, i never feel lonely anymore now i can talk the whole day to my personal assistent.
    And last but not least ofcourse my phone otherwise i will never be able to read all those sweet, evil, lovely, nasty, messages from you guys.
  • What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
    i spend quit some time on my study, i start a bachelor's degree in forensic psychology next september for now i am busy to
    improve compulsory courses . I like to spend time with friends and go out to dance on some techno beats. I start to like photography more and more and also to work on those pics to make them realy cool. Also i am an outdoor person as soon as the weather gets better i spend a lot of hours in one of the parcs in Amsterdam. In summer time i like to spend time with tourist that travel by themselves and show them around in the city, make great new friends that i can visit again when i feel like traveling a weekend.
  • How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
    As often as i can, i love to explore different cities during the year and visit the people i often meet online. Further i like skiing in winter time and during the sumer period i like to visit festivals that nobody ever heard of in the most weird places to meet the most beautifull people and live the free spirrit life.
    How cool is it that in these theys where a lot of people are lonely, and search constantly true the apps you can find a cheap ticket and really meet the person you spoke to the next week already if you want.
    On the other hand i can enjoy myself perfectly at home too, a person needs to take his moment of rest sometime. Cook a nice diner, study a bit, watch a movie or listen to music.