Interview

• What is your ‘niche’?
  i would say the " discrete boyfriend experience"
• If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
  I'm the real life unicorn. I will share some essence but you wont tame me ;)
• What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
  I base my nutrition on 5 fruits and vegetables per day
  I stopped eating fish - thanks "Seaspiracy" - except for the occassional sushi
  
  for Fitness I need a lot of different activies. When I was younger I did gymnastics so I always had a talent for "bendy" stuff XD XD
  Later I did some ballet and ice-skating #sogay and I do body weight workouts at home. I hate going to the gym; been there, tried that, not my thing.
• How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
  Is taking the public transportation system for a few hours per day considered travelling? if yes then i travel a hell lot^^
  
  but seriously, my travel habits always include a specfic reason or target. I'm definitly not the person who travels just go to into some random country for about 2 weeks to afterwards be able to boast about what they have seen of this world. In my opinion - and i try to be as dimplomatic as i can be - thats a recent lifestyle idea that often comes from people who need to prove something (I dont know what it is) to others and I don't think that this should be the main reason for you to get your ass up...
  My travel is mostly work related and thats fine by me.
• Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
  To be fair this question feels somewhat defeatist. " my greatest life experience " aka "rate my life"??? that could take a negative spin real quick:
  
  either
  nostalgic bliss of how it was (and isn't like that anymore) might lead you to the conclusion that "your best is behind you" #abitsad
  or
  you will try to "top" yourself and going into some kind of ambitious rapage of doing more, better, greater,... which ultimately will result that your previous "greatest experience" will be dulled down in your perception and you will lose yourself on the way #notanoption
  
  so for those who have continued to read up until now ^^
  i think ONE of my greatest experiences in life is that I have never fallen for the world of social media. Yes, this is a social platform too but I'm talking about all the platforms I do not use: Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter, Tiktok, ...- i do have a Facebook acount for those who want to do some digging^^
  I am a firm believer that all that virtual BS has alienated a lot of humanity and I chose not to be part of it. My time is worth real interaction in the real world
• What do you do for fun?
  The thing that I certainly do most is falling into moments of thought. Although it might not be apparent from the start, I am quiet an introvert really; so I can dwell for ages in a state of analytic disection of pretty much anything that crosses my mind. fucking love it.
  
  Other than that I read, do sports, weave a dreamcatcher (^.^) . the usual...
  Also, I grew up a geek. I'm not skilled at any video games but often the visual stimulation of watching someone else play really pulls me in and I still enjoy it up to this day. I will say though that I'm very much aware of how little productive this activity for fun is but I can't help it - it is what it is XD
• How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
  I can give you an example:
  By sitting down to actually reply to these questions.
  I am not just putting in some generic response that people might expect to read. That could be done in far less time, i dare say. But we are given 1200 characters just for this question's answer alone.
  
  And clearly I need them.
  
  
  
  Je peux présenter un exemple:
  Le fait que je m'assois pour répondre à ces questions devraient prouver quelque chose sur moi.
  J'espère croire que mes réponses soient plus approfondies qu'un simple cliché que certains peuvent éventuellement s'attendre à lire ici. J'admets que j'ose dire que ça m'aurait pris moins de mon temps personnel. Mais juste pour la réponse de cette question, on nous offre 1200 caractères.
  
  Et visiblement, j'en ai besoin.
• What are your greatest personal traits?
  I think deep down I am a very genuine person. I can be transparent, honest and open about anything.
• What makes you stand out from the crowd?
  I dont think I'm too hard on the eye to begin with ;)
  kidding
  
  In all fairness, I am not the type of person who enjoys being the center of attention anyway so mostly you could spot me somewhere in the shadows.
• What should others absolutely know about you?
  I have no idea but i can tell you a thing that people can know about me if they want to keep on reading ;) ....
  
  I have a sweet tooth. Salty is fine but nothing beats the comfort of a chocolate chip cookie, a queen of delices who reunites the earth and its suffering to create togetherness.
  
  I'm really a cake person though... I mean there is nothing better than a proper coffe-and-cake-moment during the day - some call it tea time - you may call it whatever you want. I just love that cultural aspect in life, even if its a slice of cake on a parc bench, it's sure that we'll have a great time.
• What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
  I snore?
  
  Je ronfle?
• Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
  I can not live without
  
  Social contact
  Music
  The absolute silence of a peaceful night
  Good sex
  
  And chocolate!!!
  
  
  Je ne peux pas me passer
  
  du contact social
  de la musique
  du silence absolu d'une nuit paisible
  du bon sex
  
  et du chocolat!!!
• What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
  If the situation allows it and it doesn't represent any danger for the people involved or a third party, I say YES to everything. It's fantastic because it enlightens you and makes you feel so welcoming about things in life and eventually, they will carry you further on.
  
  Si la situation le permet et que ça ne présente aucun danger pour les gens impliqués ou une tierce personne, je dis OUI à tout. C'est fantastique parce que ça vous procure une légèreté et une ouverture d'esprit qui vous mènent toujours plus loin.
• What do you enjoy most about yourself?
  What do i like most about myself? My way of thinking. In my head, I always make sense (at least to me) =D
  
  Ce que j'aime le plus chez moi? Ma façon de penser. Dans ma tête, je me dis que je me comprends =D
• If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
  I'd guide your attention onto the sounds of your surroundings: the come and go of the waves, a faraway cry of a bird...
  I would talk to you about the refreshing breeze that is ever so gently touching your skin...
  make you experience the sensation of the grains of sand that slightly tickle you between your toes as you slowly push your feet into that granulous texture...
  
  In a moment like this, I would not dare to talk about myself. I let you live this very moment.
  
  
  Je guiderai ton attention aux sons qui t'entourent: le va-et-vient des vagues, un cri d'oiseau lointin...
  Je te parlerai de la brise rafraîchissante qui touche délicatement ta peau...
  Je te ferai remarquer la sensation des petits grains de sable qui te carressent entre les orteils que tu enfonces de plus en plus dans cette texture particulière...
  
  Dans un moment pareil, je n'oserai pas parler de moi. Je te laisserai vivre le moment.